Does your girl really enjoy having sex with you, or she’s just pretending?
According to a 2010 study, up to 80 percent of women admit faking it. In a survey conducted on 2,300 women, 67 percent said they’ve faked an orgasm. About 28 percent of respondents did it to make their partner feel good. Another 27 percent faked it to end sex more quickly. These numbers may seem shocking, but they reflect the truth. Like it or not, your partner might not feel as good as you think.
Why Do Women Fake It?
According to a study conducted at the University of Texas, men and women fake orgasms for a variety of reasons. Some do it because of insecurity or lack of emotional connection. Others simply are not into sex or want to keep their partners happy. Sometimes, women pretend to have an orgasm to end a sexual encounter that’s not too great.
Unfortunately, this habit can affect relationship health and sexual satisfaction. If you feel that your partner is faking it, try to spice up your love life. Orgasm simulation hurts both of you. Thus, you need to work as a team to solve this issue and identify its root cause.
Let’s see the most common reasons why women fake orgasms:
5. They Want to Please Their Partner
Most guys get turned out when their partner reach climax. This explains why women tend to fake orgasm. Your girlfriend might be afraid that you’ll be disappointed if she doesn’t come. Also, she believes that faking it will boost your ego and put a smile on your face. The best thing you can do is to spot the problem and discuss it openly. Let your partner that you’ll do whatever it takes to give her a happy ending.
4. They’re Not in the Mood
Sometimes, women simply aren’t in the mood to have sex but they do it anyway in order to please their partners. However, this doesn’t guarantee an orgasm. If your partner doesn’t feel like having sex, try to turn her on or wait until she gets in the right mood.
3. Lack of Experience
In general, young women don’t know their bodies so well. They might be unaware of what it takes to reach climax. For this reason, some have their first “real” orgasm in the middle 30s or later. As a man, it’s your responsibility to make sure your woman is having a good time. Help her discover her body and figure out what brings her pleasure in the sheets.
2. They Focus More on the Man’s Pleasure Than Their Own
It’s not unusual for a woman to focus on satisfying her partner rather and ignore her own needs. If your partner is constantly trying to please you, take a few moments to see how she feels. Does she enjoy sex as much as you do? If not, do something about it! For instance, you can tie her hands during sex and kiss her body all over. Focus entirely on her needs to see how she reacts. Or simply tell her: “Today it’s my turn to make you feel good.”
1. They have a Hard Time Achieving a Real Orgasm
Statistics show that only 29 percent of women reach orgasm on a constant basis. Additionally, most ladies are unable to climax through penetration. However, faking it isn’t the best option. It actually makes it harder to achieve a real orgasm. If your girl is facing this problem, ask about her likes and dislikes. Focus more on foreplay and try to figure out what she really enjoys.
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